Author, Kevin Hunter update

Kevin Hunter is an American author, screenwriter, actor and columnist. He uses his middle name, “Hunter” on his books and his last name in film credits. As a writer, Hunter is best known for his work in same sex fiction with a focus on social issues and a thorough knowledge of relationships and the human condition. He writes fun books for the young adult set, although adults of all ages looking for a quick entertaining fix enjoy them as well. He counts them among his reader base as well as women find appeal in his material.

His books include, “Jagger’s Revolution” and the screenplay adaptation, “Jagger’s Revolution: A Screenplay”. His very early works include a story assignment called, “Navy Blue Eyes” which focuses solely on the online dating craze. He’s currently been hard at work on several projects, the sequel to the “Jagger’s Revolution” book tentatively called, “Jagger’s Revolution Continues.” as well as a dark Horror Crime screenplay piece called, “Paint the Silence”, both slated for a late 2009 release.

 

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THE IRONY

A great guy spots you for the second day in the same week. He walks up to you and starts talking to you. You both hit it off immediately and stand there on the sidewalk talking.

He asks you to go on a date with him right then and there. You go to a restaurant. The date goes on for hours more. When it’s over he wants to see you again.

He calls you after the date when you get home, then again the next day. And that’s the conversation when he tells you he’s moving back to Seattle in twenty-two days.

“What??” You can’t believe it.

“I guess I’ve only technically known you for four hours.” You joke.

“Yeah, Should I not talk to anyone since I’m leaving?” He jokes back.

“Good point. Let’s just have a good time with each other and not get too attached.” You say.You go out with him on dates every other day when you can. You talk to him on the phone for hours. You roll around in bed joking around knowing it’ll be a matter of days before you both will probably not see each other again once he’s moved. You remain as detached emotionally as you can even though you really like the fucker.

*This is a column excerpt taken from the Dude-Lit book, “Jagger’s Revolution” by Kevin Hunter

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TEXANS DON’T ALWAYS HAVE MORE FUN

Donnie is twenty years old and from Texas.  He hadn’t dated another guy before although very good looking.  He met a guy and fell in love with him after a few dates, but began to suspect the guy’s intentions with him might not be genuine. 

He worried if it was obvious when someone is just using you for back up or benefits, if he can see it or if his feelings will mask it. We hope it would become obvious to us. 

When you’re in love with what could be the wrong person, we sometimes lose some of our ability to reason.  We’re consumed with feelings for them.  They can do no wrong in our eyes, and they know it and they take advantage of that.  You have to rely on outside sources that are removed from your situation to see things with a fresh pair of eyes. 

If someone is taking from you and not giving then it’s not a shared relationship.  If that’s the case they’re probably using you on some level and unconcerned with what’s going on with you, and that’s never a good thing.  You have to keep an eye out for those small gestures.  Don’t be misled by the hot looks of the guy.  It’s dangerous.

“Whenever I want to discuss how they feel towards me, since they used to say I love you, but now he doesn’t.”  He used the word ‘they’ to mask what gender it is.  “He tells me I don’t want to talk about it.  He never calls, and I hardly get to see him.  When we do talk he tells me about how many people want to be with him, but then how he blows them off to be with me.  He also says that as soon as we have time we will be together if we have a strong friendship first, blah, blah, blah.” 

This has been going on for him for almost a month, which at the age of twenty, a month is a year.  Before that “a lot of shit got stirred”.  He went on to date other people but then he “sort of” came back to him, and kept telling him to give it a little more time.  

“I’ve been in this boat for a month and I feel like once he has given up he’ll come to me.  Now he’s looking for someone better, and if he can’t find it, then I’ll be back in.  He gets pissed when I spend money on him, or I offer to pay for his stuff.” Donnie listed enough cons to fill out a whole page:  - He never calls - He hardly gets to see him - Speaks of how many people want to be with him - Says, “In time we’ll be together” - Left him to date other people - Sort of came back to him - Says give it a little more time - Once he’s given up he’ll come back to him - He’s looking for something better then will come back - Gets pissed when money is spent on him (that’s the guy’s guilt for accepting it knowing he’s not that into him.) Breaking down the lines that people to say to us are clearer than we think, but we don’t want to believe that the person we’re crushing on might not be as interested as we hoped.  It sucks. 

Donnie’s crush did say one smart thing out of all the negatives.  The strong friendship first proposal stands a better chance at surviving and growing into something more than the immediate boyfriend set up after one day.  Other than that the possibility of Donnie and his crush running off into the sunset are zero.  He’s being used like old condom.  Once it’s used it’s just going to be thrown away. 

Communication is important in any relationships victory, and the other guy doesn’t want to talk about it.  When a guy wants to be with you, he tells you point blank, there’s no beating around the bush.  He wants you right then and there.  He always wants to talk to hear you out.  If there is no communication like that going on, the relationship will die.  If a guy is into you, he’s into you as clear as the day.  He isn’t searching for validation from others and then rubbing it in your face.  He’s not dating other people to see if there’s anything better.  He knows what he has is the best!   You don’t want to be with someone like Donnie’s crush and instead find someone deserving of your affections.

*This is a column excerpt taken from the Dude-Lit book, “Jagger’s Revolution” by Kevin Hunter

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FEM ENERGY RISE TO THE TOP

Some women say when a man speaks his mind, he’s respected, and when a woman does she’s a bitch.  But are these women speaking their minds?  Or is it in the form of a badger or a whimper coupled with banging things around.  They react overemotional, become loud and verbally abusive?  The relationships they have with men deteriorate.  They stay at home all day, spend their man’s money and demand more, while the men work all day to pay for their facials, massages and pampering.  It’s one particularly woman I’m talking about.  They’re not attractive, and the guy is fairly good looking or distinguished.  You wonder how did this come together.  This might explain all the divorces and adultery going on within the relationship.  Don’t get involved with them, so basically, just look for a straight guy, which is probably why they end up going straight to the top in the end.

He’s made attacks on certain types of women before as well as attacked queens or ultra femmes as some use.  It was never them exactly that he was attacking, but the not thought out point of view by others of a less rational grace only saw it that way.  It is the concentrated feminine energy that they represent to him.  It’s their extremist sensitivity and with things that don’t go their way.  It’s their informal chattiness in the way of conversation over others personal events.  It’s the irrelevant question probing for the sake of feeding a gossip machine.  He finds it extremely intolerable and sees someone with lack of serious social grace and diminished mental capacity.  It’s negative and sickening venom that plagues the world with insignificance.  It’s that kind of mold energy that permeates off of them like sourness that he finds completely unfathomable and incredibly toxic. These qualities tend mostly only to be attached to a certain type of woman and ultra queens or fags, and it’s rarely ever men.  His distaste for it is exceptionally severe.  He keeps quiet when they’re in his presence hoping they’ll take the hint and go away.

 

*This is a column excerpt taken from the Dude-Lit book, “Jagger’s Revolution” by Kevin Hunter

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GAINED A BOYFRIEND & DUMPED YOUR FRIENDS

Whenever a guy gets a boyfriend, he turns into a fucking pussy, a fucking girl.  You’re so far up the guy’s ass like a fucking pansy we can’t see your face anymore.  You write off your friends, the ones that stood by you no matter what.  Your sad little two week to three month fling falls apart, because you’re too inadequate to keep something going when the romance dies and the attraction fades.  Then you appear out of nowhere crawling back to your friends to have them fill that loneliness void that suddenly appeared in the core of your mindless being. 

*This is a column excerpt taken from the Dude-Lit book, “Jagger’s Revolution” by Kevin Hunter

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THE HOTTEST BACHELORS

In order for the eligible hot bachelor to make the cut shouldn’t he at least qualify first?  It doesn’t count if the guy is a player and incapable of long-term intimacy and especially having no record of long-term intimacy in the past.  We know he is most likely inept.

James, 21 years old, works as a cop in the Air Force with an unstoppable sensational appetite for country music.   They sat and talked for a bit and he told him of his problems of looking the way he does and how it doesn’t always have its perks.  “It just pisses me off a little, getting hit on, when I state clearly, that I am in a relationship.”Boys will always be boys, you can say you’re in a relationship, but it’s irrelevant to them.  Unfortunately, what it does is diminish any possibility of the guy having any gentleman qualities.  A true gentleman would be respectable towards someone who is involved with someone and not openly flirt as if your relationship doesn’t exist, and thus insisting on it being meaningless.  But there is a shortage of cultured chaps out there. 

Then we have those that already have boyfriends and are on this mad crusade parading the streets for an abundance of friends.  If you’re happy in your relationship you end up alienating everyone including your friends, so the chances of you out there looking for the next best thing are big.

Hot model with only towel wrapped around waist kneels down continuing to profess undying co-dependent love for him.  Even if he’s a hot model you’re going to get tired of him after spending seven straight days with him.  He strips on a suit for big meeting at Editor’s office.  Most of the time they’re all used to seeing beach bum columnist in jeans, t-shirt and same flip flops, refusing to overdress just to impress, but today he wants to throw them off and give them a statement then walks out of meeting.  He knows he doesn’t fit into the gay clubs.  He’s frowned upon.  He’s more accepted by the straight members.  It’s they that have propelled his career and gave him work.  The gay members denied him access, because he wasn’t Abercrombie enough or flamboyant for their group.  This columnist discards your meaningless sex only filled clubs, and chooses instead to walk alone, independent, own man, with or without your stamp of approval, calm, hard ice prick.

*This is a column excerpt taken from the Dude-Lit book, “Jagger’s Revolution” by Kevin Hunter

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UTOPIAN BROTHER RENEGADE

Guys don’t want to be your friend.  It’s call me because I want sex with you or forget it.  The other extreme is call me if you’re interested in pursuing dating me in hopes of leading to a long term relationship.  There is nothing in between.  Where do you meet a great guy?  Is it even possible?  

You won’t find him in any boy’s town anywhere in the universe.  The dismal and unfortunate thing is many out there look and hope of wrangling their young buck to be their soul mates frequent it. 

Wherever there is a place that is invaded by others like yourself the odds are extreme and against you.  You have hundreds of guys all there for the same thing.  It’s a sexual brothel, a sexual haven and the competition is everywhere.  Maybe you’ll find him there, but you won’t keep him past two weeks let alone a couple days.  He’ll be off and running around with a new boy that’ll lead to a secret sexual rendezvous, and you’ll be forced to move on and do the same.  Before you know it years have gone by, it’s become your life and you’ve never felt so alone.  We hurt for a day maybe a couple more.  You have to push yourself to move on after the first night because enough is enough.  He’s not worth your thoughts.

Boy’s town a place that the media investigates to heavily portray the gay community, but what is disheartening is that that’s only one percent of the rest of the world.  It’s a place where the gay community is out in the open in a beautiful and overstated way.  It’s what it means when you say you have a gay lifestyle.  But it’s only one slice of the people that exist in the world.  It’s not the whole picture, no one ever branches out to see the other shades that survive because those shades aren’t as obvious and exaggerated.  They’re the Wall Street brokers, the lawyers, doctors, and surfers.  And like them, and in Hermosa, they blend in with the rest of the world.  The percentage of their existence is much greater, because it’s not concentrated in one area, but rather it’s universal.  They’re not as identifiable and typecast as the media has portrayed them. 

They blend in with each other, and not because of fear, but because it’s who they are, it’s how they were born.  They are regular people whose driving force is not who is in their bedroom, it’s their integrity and what they set out to do.  Their sexuality and preference isn’t what pushes them forward, it takes a back seat of concern for many reasons that make up their nature, but does that mean that they’re any less gay because they’re not flamboyant enough? 

Why aren’t we paying attention to the others that exist in the gay world as well?  If the film communities are going to make a movie about someone who is gay they want him to be the larger-than-life character that we see in boy’s town.  But they’re not telling the whole truth, only a minuscule version of it. 

The boys are each other’s right hand.  It’s so rare to have friends like that especially in what some stereotypically call the gay world.  They all know they will have each other’s back and be there no matter what.  They are their own tight unit.  They are not out they are in.  They are their own family unit of love and with their own base of possibilities.  They grow strong as time moves on.  The future shows more greatness in their wake.  They have their own utopia, and their own renegade, one of true empathy for all.  They see all the differences, and all the colors that inhabit each individual.  They are all separate entities linked to one purpose, one definition, one destination of all light and reception.  There’s something about having a brother and a friend where the two of them can be attractive in their own way, but manage to maintain a friendship without benefits, where there is too much respect to let emotions or the physical get in the way of this utopian brother renegade the four boys have created.  They have formed an alliance in search of promoting truth in our culture.Friends are like that of a sports team.  Sports teams have some of the best human qualities that carry over to your personal and business life.  You have groups solidified by cooperating with each other.  In order to succeed, they have to have complete communication and in turn the group is able to work through conflicts and come to a resolution. How is it two straight guys can have a life long friendship and for two gay guys it’s rare or nearly impossible?  Perhaps there are too many sexual undertones, urges and attraction and it’s acted on at some point?  Maybe it’s because there isn’t any of that touchiness with straight guys.  You don’t have to watch what you say, where as with the latter, you do?  Maybe a lot of them are like some of today’s American women, chunky bitches, 5 foot 5, 180 pounds with short hair and an attitude.           

Fraternities are another camaraderie group, minus some of the violent controversies.  Fraternities are a group that defines brotherhood, where they push for strong bonds.  If done positively, their goal is to encourage camaraderie.  Their goal together is one of bonding.  Brothers are all one when they agree.

*This is a column excerpt taken from the Dude-Lit book, “Jagger’s Revolution” by Kevin Hunter

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TOP TEN MATING LIST

The top ten list of the signs you know the guy is into you on a serious basis.  It’s not just the guy who does these things or acknowledges them, but it goes both ways, it’s a give and take, you also have to do them too.  It amazes me the guys who want someone to provide things for them while they do nothing.  They have a list of what they want, but they have nothing of substance to offer in return. 

1) He calls you back within a day, no more than two.

2) He is 100% supportive of you and your aspirations, accomplishments and he never makes a negative comment about it except in the way of constructive advice to assist you in attaining your goal.

3) He stands by you not only through the good times, but also more importantly through the bad.

4) He always wants to know about you, what’s going on, how your day is.

5) He never strays, cheats, or wants to introduce more partners into your mix.

6) He has an open communicative outlet with you without judgment.

7) He mentions and hints of plans of your future together.

8 ) He doesn’t try to hurt you deliberately.

9) He showers you with constant physical affection.

10) You take precedents over anyone else, yet you’re not alienated or suffocated by it.  He wants to work with you when there is conflict to come to a truce or a resolution.  You know you’ve succeeded when you have sex or make sweet loving. 

Maybe top ten lists are out of date and we should all just wing it, but has it been working for you?

*This is a column excerpt taken from the Dude-Lit book, “Jagger’s Revolution” by Kevin Hunter

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PEOPLE AND THEIR ANIMALS

What is it with people and their animals?   When you try to date someone that has an animal they’re obsessed with, you find they seem to have trouble functioning in human relationships. 

If you’re involved with one of these people, you must come to the conclusion that you take a back seat to their dog.  I went on a first date with this one guy who hours before our date said, “I hope you like dogs.”  Was the dog going to pick up that I was irritated it was around when I wanted to get busy with my date?  Would he tell his master I’m no good for him?  Why tell me unless the guy had run into many problems with potential suitors because of his dog.  Maybe the guy already knew it would fall apart, because like Linus and his blanket he couldn’t let go.

I knew this one guy who dated a chick with a dog.  Whenever she was about to get cozy with the guy at his place, she’d up and leave because Rufus was waiting for her at home.  He couldn’t have a relationship with her, since she was already in one, with her dog.  I met a man who was in a relationship with his dog.  He said having the dog grounded him.  The fact is it didn’t ground him at all.  It separated him from other people.  He was incompetent of functioning whenever he’d encounter a potential love interest.  His dog was his security blanket, his safety net.  He knew that if it didn’t work past one day with a guy at least he would have his dog, who would always be there happily wagging it’s tail to give him that utter devotion he so craved.  He could control the dog, where as a boyfriend he was totally unskilled.For the man, he ended up living in his own narcissistic fantasyland with any true human contact.  He ended up wishing he could have the real unattainable boy that he couldn’t stop thinking about.  His unhealthy anger invaded him like China.

*This is a column excerpt taken from the Dude-Lit book, “Jagger’s Revolution” by Kevin Hunter

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